Being a Teen Mom

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JASMINE MEYNARD
08/29/2014
College success
Ms. Williams

Introduction

It goes beyond any worldly riches, I feel great every time I look into the face of my beautiful daughter Neyah, and I say to myself self; I am important to this world I help created this face that is mine and how wonderful is that. Then, in my mind I heard the sound Ru ru that Scooby Doo makes when he’s in danger. “Scooby Doo, the character who solves mysteries involving supposedly supernatural creatures through a series of antics and missteps (wikipedia.org).” then, reality kicked in. Being a teen mom is very demanding and difficult at times, especially when it comes with an unplanned pregnancy as a teen. The difficulties it came with social, mental, and emotional feelings by the sudden change in the course of life. In addition, I had to take on many more responsibilities. However, with an unplanned pregnancy I had to give up many things in order to be a parent. As a result, becoming a parent introduce me to many new responsibilities and difficulties. Motherhood changed my life, it’s not always an easy transition, but with any transition there is guaranteed change for sure. However, with an unplanned pregnancy I had to give up many things in order to be a parent.

The difficulties it came with social, mental, and emotional feelings by the sudden change in the course of life. To begin with, if it wasn’t for my mother support I don’t know what I would have done. Though my mom had eight children did not mean it was smooth sailing for me. I am the seventh to the last, the baby girl in the family. My parents had six boys and two girls. First, my parents are very loving. They love us all, though my dad was very strict. My mom’s balance him out. I missed my father deeply; my dad had passed away with an illness call “(Sarcoidosis (sar-koy-DO-sis). Sarcoidosis is a disease of unknown cause that…...

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