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Interpersonal Conflict in Film
COM 200 Interpersonal Communication

Interpersonal Conflict in Film Interpersonal conflict in film is the same as in life. There are times when words or things are said that are taken out of context and you wish they could be retracted. There were many instances of conflict in the film I chose to view. After watching this film, I learned to be comfortable with yourself. Also be careful of what is said and how it is said to avoid escalating any incident you may have in an active relationship. If the couples in this movie was conveyed this message, majority of the relationships would have been long standing. The first incident of interpersonal conflict an incident that happened where the lady’s relative was added to the incident. On the couple’s first date, they went to an island were all the immigrants’ first stop to the United States, and her ancestor name was listed. She became very emotional and then took a 180 degrees turn on the emotional spectrum. She explained what the ancestor was accused of in the past. During the incident the man thought the lady ancestor was an actual butcher for an occupation. The man in doing research on the lady’s past can seem to be a very nice thing to do but in looking out for her family information to a potential suitor, relay only the basic information when it pertains to your family. Sometimes the information you retrieve can back fire and you can do harmful things with personal information. As this conflict was taking place, I noticed all the hurt that was being displayed on both the man and the lady faces. Even though he was the date doctor , he did not practice his own concepts when he had to face the incidents head on. He did a very good job advising his clients how to handle all types of conflict that happens in a relationship but was unable to use this…...

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