Reaction Paper: Human Sexuality

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April 1, 2013
1) The cookie and who is in control of it! Strager’s essay provides an insightful and often hilarious commentary on the target audience of pornography: masturbating men. He states that pornography focuses only on male pleasure and that when a man is not present in the scene, women are there only as objects which a man will get pleasure from. His conclusion is that men watch pornography in a somewhat homoerotic way, focusing on the men in the films rather than the women. He goes even further to say that men are specifically watching the penis - the rest of the man’s body does not matter. Strager’s argument is unusual, but compelling. The idea of a focus on disembodied genitalia does not seem so strange when you consider how large the market for sex toys is. So, if we accept Strager’s explanation that men watch pornography to see the pleasure of other men, what do women watch when they watch pornography? It’s no secret that the accessibility of porn has increased consumption not just by men, but by women as well. Statistics are varied but seem to indicate that more females are using pornography than ever before. Female-point-of-view films, female porn directors, and even novels such as Fifty Shades of Grey indicate a changing industry which includes women. The shocking question “Do women watch porn?” has been transformed into “Why do women watch porn?” One may suggest that women watch porn to bond with their male partners, to satisfy curiosity, to learn new things, or to get themselves in the mood. No one asks why men watch pornography because the answer seems apparent - they watch it to get off. Why can the answer not be as simple for women? Whatever the reason, we must return to the question raised by Strager. If porn targets men, and showcases the penis, then are women watching men and the penis as well? If they are watching “men’s porn,” then…...

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